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Wednesday 30 June 2021

What are the Benefits of Five Daily Prayers?

 


Praying five times a day is considered so important to Muslims that we call it one of the Five Pillars of Islam.

In other words, along with the declaration of faith, fasting in Ramadan, paying of Zakat and going on pilgrimage once in one’s life to Makkah, prayer is considered essential if we are to call ourselves Muslims.


Modern men and women are not looking for extra burdens to put on their backs, so there is much more to praying than observing a regulation.

As with everything in Islam, there is a reason behind all the things we do. Sometimes, if we don’t understand these underlying reasons, many things can just appear as external rules and regulations.

There is Much More to Prayer

Contrary to what many people think, there is much more to prayer than just asking for things!

Of course, we ask things of Almighty God, but we can also spend time thanking Him and praising Him. Indeed, the angels in heaven exist just to do this.

In the holy Quran we read:

{Most surely, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find solace.} (13:28)

In the Call to Prayer (the Adhan), which is called from the mosque five times a day, the caller says these words: “Come to prayer. Come to Success.”

In the Call for the Morning Prayer, he even adds the phrase, “Prayer is better than sleep.”

There is really nothing more beautiful in a Muslim country to wake up in the morning to hear Allah’s name being mentioned from every part of the city.

Even for those who are the only Muslims in their town, though, the morning Call to Prayer reminds them just how beautiful a gift prayer really is.

Imagine an air-raid siren being sounded in time of war. People hear the siren and run as fast as they can to take cover from the bombs that would soon be falling on them.

The Adhan is like this air-raid siren, but instead of calling people to take shelter from bombs it is asking them to come to God Almighty and take shelter from the cares of this life.

Prayer is a Gift


When our foreheads are touching the ground in prayer we can’t fool anyone.

You see, prayer is not an escape from reality. It is an escape to reality. In prayer, we can put all things in perspective and see what is really important in life.

Maybe in life, we manage to fool others by the way we dress or by the words we use.

Sometimes we even manage to fool ourselves. But Allah is not to be fooled.

He not only created the heavens and the earth and everything in between, but He also knows every leaf that falls from every tree. This is why we can truly be ourselves in His presence when we pray.

For Muslims, praying is not a regulation. It is a gift.

So why five prayers, and why at certain set times during the day?

You know, of all the Pillars of Islam, praying five times a day was revealed to Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) in heaven.

At first, he was told that Muslims should pray fifty times, but Prophet Moses (peace be upon him) urged Muhammad to go back and say that this was too much.

Allah Almighty then said ten times, and again Moses (peace be upon him) persuaded Muhammad (peace be upon him) to plead that this was too much.

Finally, Muhammad (peace be upon him) was told that Muslims must pray five times a day, and Allah added,

“I have enforced My obligation and made it light for my servants. He who prays these five prayers will be rewarded as if he had prayed fifty. What I decree cannot be changed.”  (Al-Bukhari)

Permeate the Whole Day with the Remembrance of Allah


Some new Muslims say that they lead very busy lives and ask if it is OK to say all the five prayers together in the evening when they have more time.

The regulation of praying at certain set times is not just a random idea. The whole idea is to permeate the whole of one’s day with the remembrance of Allah.

It is precisely because we live busy lives that we must pray at certain times.

The times are simple: when we get up, at noon, in the middle of the afternoon, in the early evening and at night.

By praying at these set times we give a routine of prayer to our day. We wake up thinking of Allah and we spend the day interrupting all of our busyness to think of Him again.

So, if you are new to Islam is it easy to adjust to the routine of praying at five fixed times a day?

Well, in my own case it certainly wasn’t easy and it took me some time to get used to it.

So if at first, you are not feeling all that uplifted by getting up to pray at four in the morning, stick with it. The routine itself will help you.

By doing good things we become good people. The routine of prayer will make you a better Muslim.

Useful Practical Tips

A few simple tips might help. If you find it difficult to get up for the Dawn Prayer, then buy yourself a loud alarm clock, or even two or three, and have them so far out of your reach that you have to get up to turn them off!

You might at first even get your telephone company to give you a wake-up call.

As well as an alarm clock, you can also get an alarm clock that will sound the call to Prayer five times a day. There are many Muslim bookshops that sell these and you could probably even get one online.

This kind of clock is especially helpful if you live in a country where the Adhan is not called publicly. If that is not possible, set your mobile phone to vibrate and be reminded of the prayer times even while you are in the office!

How to Curb Distractions

A problem people sometimes have in prayer is that they are distracted and cannot concentrate.

Well, it all depends on how well prepared we are. If we are going to our prayers straight from watching a football match or a sitcom on the TV, then our thoughts will not be on Allah alone. So we need to take time in preparing for prayer.

This, in fact, is what the ablution gives us time to do.

As we wash away the dirt that clings to our bodies, we prepare for the prayer to wash away the dirt that clings to our hearts and our lives.

So, for those new to Islam, setting off on a journey of prayer will bring great benefits.

The greatest one of all is that it will help us to put our lives into perspective, seeing that all things come from Allah and that it is to Allah that all will return.

(From Ask About Islam archives)

-aboutislam.net

Tuesday 29 June 2021

Guidance Is on Every Page of the Quran!

 

In Surah Al Baqarah verse 2 it says “this is the book of which there is no doubt a guidance for those conscious of Allah.” The Quran is a book of guidance.

The Quran has always been a book of guidance and will always be a book of guidance. On any page in the Quran, there is some form of guidance or teaching. This teaching has benefits for human beings if implemented correctly.

Try it for yourself. Open up any page of the Quran and somewhere on that page you will find some form of guidance. -aboutislam.net

Monday 28 June 2021

The Path to the Light (Part 1, 2 and 3)

 


The Path to the Light

(Part 1)

Every minute, somewhere in the world, a Muslim stands facing Mecca in prayer. In each unit of prayer, nestled into the verses of chapter Al-Fatihah, a crucial du’a, or supplication, is made:

{Guide us to the straight path.} (Quran 1:6)

Often we recite this verse without thinking about what we are asking. What is the straight path? Where does it begin, and to where does it lead? How do we navigate it, and, if we lose our way, how do we come back again?

The allegory of life being like a path or a road is found in many cultures and languages. We often hear things like, “the path to success is never easy,” or “the road of life is filled with twists and turns.”

However, the specific path mentioned in chapter Al-Fatihah must be something significant enough that we ask Allah Almighty for it in every single one of our prayers.

This series of articles hopes, by the will of Allah, to help us learn about this path: the path to the Light.

The Nature of the Path

Throughout the Quran, Allah Almighty uses metaphors and allegories to help us better understand His words. Had Allah willed, chapter Al-Fatihah could have asked for guidance to a specific place—a single spot in space and time whereby the one arriving at it would have achieved faith.

But Allah, in His infinite wisdom, described it as a path, a way. This is no coincidence.

Think for a moment about a physical path that guides us from one place to another. It may not be paved, but is still distinguishable from the earth around it. The successions of people or animals that have trod over it have worn away at the earth, creating any obvious track in the ground to lead the way. In most cases, the path exists where it does because that is the way upon which travelling is the easiest and safest. For a traveler lost in the woods, finding a path brings much peace of mind.

By definition, a path is not a single spot. It is a series of infinite spots all connected together to form a way. Once we begin taking a path, we don’t just stand in one place. We move forward, step by step. Finding the path doesn’t mean we’ve arrived at our desired destination. It just means that we’ve now found the way to get there.

Similarly in life, we are not all at the same place on our spiritual path to Allah Almighty. Some of us may be just beginning, others may be further ahead. When we recite Al-Fatihah, we ask to be guided to the path, but getting to the path doesn’t mean we’ve arrived at our destination. It just means we’ve found the way. It is up to us to follow that path.

Allah explains this idea in many places in the Quran:

{And verily, this is my Straight Path, so follow it, and follow not [other] paths, for they will separate you away from His Path. This He has ordained for you that you may become pious.} (6:153)

Scholars have explained the straight path that Allah mentions in the Quran in several ways. They have said it is the path of Islam, of peaceful submission to The One; the path detailed in the Book of Allah, and exemplified in the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad; the path of truth; and the path that begins in this life and ultimately leads the believer to al-jannah (Paradise).

Finding the Path

Imagine walking through the woods in the darkness. There is no moon, and we have no flashlight. There may be a very clear path, but in the darkness, we just can’t see it.

Humans naturally don’t do well with darkness. We get uncomfortable by virtue of the fact that we can’t appreciate our surroundings—we can’t see our way.

Our eyes perceive physical darkness. They send signals to our brain and we, in turn, react to the darkness. If we were really lost in the woods at night, each of us might react differently. Some might sit very still and listen, hoping to use sounds to find their way. Others might start feeling around with their hands, relying on their sense of touch to understand their surroundings.

But surely, the wisest step to take when we find ourselves in the midst of physical darkness is to try to find a source of light. That source of light, whether a flashlight, a candle or even just a match, will help us understand our environment far better than if we tried to rely on all our other senses combined. With a source of light we not only find the path, but are better able to keep from veering off of it.

The physical world is one of Allah’s signs to His creation. Allah says in the Quran that in the creation of the heavens and the earth and the transition from the darkness of night to the brightness of the day are signs for people of sound understanding. Our physical realities help us better understand our spiritual realities.

Just as Allah Almighty has enabled us to perceive physical darkness, so too has He enabled us to perceive spiritual darkness. Spiritual darkness makes it difficult to decipher things. Truth is indistinguishable from falsehood. Good and evil become muddled. Spiritual darkness makes it very hard to find our way. However, unlike physical darkness, we don’t perceive spiritual darkness with our eyes. We perceive it with our hearts.

The heart is the vessel that carries our faith. It is the organ with which we know and love Allah Almighty. It is the vehicle we use to traverse the path to Him. We distinguish truth from falsehood with our hearts. We sense spiritual light and darkness with our hearts.

We know that it is very hard to follow a path in the darkness: we need light. What is the source of our spiritual light? Allah Almighty tells us that He is the Light of the heavens and the earth. His Light guides us to the path, helps us follow the path, and ultimately helps us arrive at our destination. Allah has given us the tools we need to increase the spiritual light in our lives. We just need to know how to use them.

In the next article, we will, Allah-willing, examine those tools, aim to better understand them, and learn more about how to best follow the path to the Light.

Healthy Hearts - Part 2

Sometimes everything seems dark. We look around and wonder what has happened to our world. Innocent people are being killed, families are being torn apart, and so many are suffering. The aches in our hearts and the lumps in our throats linger into the night.

At such times we might forget that darkness doesn’t exist on its own. Darkness is merely the partial or total absence of light. This series, The Path to the Light, aims to help us illuminate whatever darkness we find ourselves in. It is meant as a reminder for all of us that we are in control of the light we let into our lives, and that light—both physical and spiritual—are gifts from our Creator.

In the previous article, we introduced some of these concepts. We remembered how in every unit of our prayers, we ask for guidance to the straight path. And we also discussed how the path may be very clearly marked, but we will not be able to follow it in the darkness. We need a source of light.

Just as we can distinguish physical darkness and light with our eyes, we too can distinguish spiritual darkness and light. Not with our eyes, but with our hearts.

The Importance of the Heart

Almost universally, religious traditions have stressed the importance of the heart. Numerous examples in the Judeo-Christian tradition,[1] in various eastern traditions,[2] and even among the ancients,[3] discuss the heart as the vehicle used to connect to the Divine.

In contemporary discussions, we often refer to the heart when talking about human behavior. For example, when someone has a shift in their attitudes or actions, we call it a “change of heart.” When we want to convey sincerity, we speak “from the bottom of our hearts.” Someone who has a “heart of gold,” is extremely kind and helpful, while their opposite, a person with a “heart of stone,” is cold, stern or cruel.

We’re told by society to “follow our hearts,” but usually warned that doing so will get us hurt. The heart is devalued by virtue of it being emotional, impassioned and impulsive. Logical reasoning, thinking, and comprehension, we are told, are faculties reserved for the brain.

But Islam says otherwise. Islam teaches that the heart is the most valuable possession of the believer, best able to know and love the Creator, distinguish between good and evil, and derive meaning from life’s circumstances.

The Quran tells us that with our hearts we “know” and “comprehend” (Quran, 22:46), “see” (Quran, 7:179), and find peace (13:26). The heart is a vessel, a container meant to be filled with faith, light, and guidance. Its soundness is equated with soundness in speech, thinking, and action.

Prophetic Guidance

One of the most famous of the hadith about the heart is as follows:

“There lies within the body a piece of flesh. If it is sound, the whole body is sound; and if it is corrupted, the whole body is corrupted. Verily this piece is the heart.” (Bukhari and Muslim)

Interestingly, this is only part of a much longer hadith. This first part of this hadith states:

“That which is permissible is clear and that which is not permissible is clear, and between them are matters unclear that are unknown to most people. Whoever is wary of these unclear matters has absolved his religion and honor. And whoever indulges in them has indulged in that which is not permissible. It is like a shepherd who herds his sheep too close to preserved sanctuary, and they will eventually graze in it. Every king has a sanctuary, and the sanctuary of Allah is what He has made not permissible.” (Bukhari and Muslim)[4]

When we put these ideas together, we see that there is a direct connection between the states of our hearts and our ability to withhold from doing the wrong things, from violating the sanctuaries of our King.

The Prophet, peace be upon him, also said:

“Indeed if a believer sins, a black spot covers his heart. If he repents, and stops from his sin, and seeks forgiveness for it, his heart becomes clean again. If he persists (instead of repenting), it increases until it covers his heart…” (Ibn Majah)

The Quran references this idea as well, mentioning a seal, veil, or stain that covers the hearts of those who knowingly deny the truth once it has come to them (83:14). Like a blindfold, this covering prevents the heart from “seeing” by the degree to which it covers it. A heart enveloped in darkness will not perceive light.

Keeping Our Hearts Healthy

It thus follows that one of the best ways to ensure our hearts are illuminated is by safeguarding our actions. The Quran tells us to {Do good to others, surely Allah loves those who do good to others} (2:195). Speaking truth, helping others, enjoining what is good and advising against what is not are all actions that contribute to the health and light of our hearts.

None of us is perfect, and we undoubtedly make mistakes. But when we do, let us turn in humility to our Lord, Sustainer, Master and Cherisher, and ask forgiveness. Repentance ensures our hearts remain pure, healthy, and full of light.

The Quran tells us that the person who {repents, believes, and works righteous deeds, Allah will change the evil of such persons into good} (25:70). And over and over again, the Quran emphasizes Allah’s Mercy towards His servants: {Surely Allah forgives the faults altogether; surely He is the Forgiving the Merciful.} (Quran 39:53)

As we said previously, the straight path of Islam is not a single spot. It is a series of infinite spots all connected together to form a way. Finding the path doesn’t mean we’ve arrived at our desired destination. It just means that we’ve now found the way there. We begin at the path by recognizing the importance of our hearts and committing ourselves to improving our actions. We also seek forgiveness for the times we’ve erred.

At a time when there is much darkness around us, we can all benefit from increasing the spiritual light in our lives and sharing it with others. In the next articles, we will, God-willing, discuss more ways of doing so.

References:

[1] https://bible.org/article/guarding-heart

[2] http://loveyogaanatomy.com/opening-the-heart/

[3] : http://www.touregypt.net/featurestories/heart.htm#ixzz43hXrTeM2

[4] http://40hadithnawawi.com/index.php/the-hadiths/hadith-6

Prayer – The Spiritual Light and Guidance

(Part 3)

In every unit of prayer, Muslims stand before their Lord and recite the Opening chapter of the Quran. Nestled into the verses of this chapter is a crucial request:

Guide us to the straight path.

The previous articles in this series examined that path, emphasizing that it is not a single spot. It’s a series of infinite spots connected together to form a way. Like movement forward on a physical path, moving forward on this spiritual path requires effort—not only of the limbs, but also of the heart.

One of the essential teachings of Islam is that every person is born with a simple, spiritual truth already imprinted in his or her being: That God exists and that He alone is to be worshiped and obeyed.[i]

Just as dust covers a book forgotten high upon a shelf, at times in the history of humanity, this spiritual truth got covered up, hidden, obscured and sometimes even forgotten.

Islam teaches that messengers and prophets like Noah, Abraham, Lot, Ishmael, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, Moses and Jesus were sent to metaphorically dust off that truth. They were to remind people of their covenant with their Creator, and to enjoin goodness and justice.

Prophet Muhammad was the last of these messengers and prophets. His mission sealed the long line of prophets. His legacy contained all that humanity would need to fulfill their covenant with God, to find and follow this “straight path.”

Prophet Muhammad’s Legacy


In this hadith, often referred to as “Hadith Jibreel,” [ii] the Prophet Muhammad was approached by a the Angel Jibreel who came in the form of a man and asked him several questions.

Importantly, the legacy of the Prophet Muhammad was not one of outward actions alone or of inward beliefs by themselves. It encompassed both. One beautiful hadith outlines the foundational pillars of his legacy, in a sense, marking the path for those who chose to follow it.

The first was to inform him about Islam. His response was that Islam was built on five: to testify that there is no object worthy of worship or devotion except Allah, to pray, to fast in Ramadan, to give charity, and to perform the pilgrimage of Hajj if one is able to do so.

Very often when thinking about Islam, we focus on these five pillars and stop there. We think of them as a to-do list, and once we’ve checked everything off, we go on with “life.”

But the teachings of Islam are not just relegated to the religious. Islam is described as a deen, an Arabic word that connotes all that a person does out of submission and worship for the Creator, inclusive of beliefs and worship, and also of intellectual, moral, and social realities.

Internal Dimensions


Few of us would ever move into a house that consisted of a foundation alone. We’d want a structure built upon that foundation, walls, doors, windows, and a roof. And we’d probably want to furnish the house and make it comfortable, perhaps even decorate the inside a little.

Thus, the Prophet Muhammad’s legacy, the straight path, is not just that we outwardly fulfill the actions outlined in the five pillars. The Prophet said Islam was built on these; if we stopped there, we’d have only pillars, and no building.

Understandably, the Angel Jibreel’s conversation with the Prophet (peace be upon him) did not end there. His subsequent questions, “Inform me about Imaan” connected these outward actions to the concept of belief or faith, and thereafter, “inform me about Ihsan,” to the idea that we should perfect whatever actions we do for Allah Almighty at both the internal and external levels.

At the end of the narration, the Angel Jibreel asked the Prophet about the Hour and its signs. The Prophet (peace be upon him) emphasized that all of these laid the foundation for one’s deen.

The flow of ideas in this beautiful prophetic narration is no coincidence. It emphasizes a very important principle in Islam: That every external action, whether religious or secular in nature, has an internal dimension.

Thus every action has the potential to transcend the physical realm and affect the state of the heart. Some actions reflect positively on the heart, helping it remain sound and aware of the truth within it. Others put a stain or blemish on the heart, and the heart is thus blinded by the degree to which it is covered.

Connected Hearts


How often do we realize the effects the images we’ve seen, or the things we have heard have had on our hearts? What, if anything, can we do to connect our external realities with our internal ones?

It might make sense in theory that actions at the physical level affect us spiritually. However, understanding the practical implications of this isn’t always easy. How many of us rush through our prayer unaware that our hearts did not benefit from the prayer?

Knowing the intent behind our actions is one of the first things we can do to help us make that connection. For example, I could perform prayer in perfect physical fashion to the outside observer. However, my prayer could be completely devoid of the focus and awareness that is meant to accompany it.

I could approach the prayer as if it were a burden, with the intent to check one more thing off of my to-do list. Rather than improving my internal state, my prayer has become merely mechanical, and I will no longer derive from it the intended benefit.

Read: Practicing Islam: A Burden or Ease?

However, if I’m aware of the purpose behind the prayer, that it is meant to reconnect me with my Lord, Sustainer, and Provider. And to light my spiritual path in life, then everything changes. I no longer see the prayer merely as an obligation I should fulfill, but as a gift, a priceless opportunity to move forward on my spiritual journey.

The same applies to other acts of worship, like fasting, giving charity, and performing the Hajj. When we cultivate an understanding of why we do each of these things, of the imaan that fuels the act, and when we engage our hearts in the act and try to do it as beautifully as possible, we derive the most benefit from it. Instead of just a foundation, we become equipped to build an entire house, beautifully decorated on the inside and out.

Islam is not simply a religion. It is a holistic way of life whereby everything a person does is tied to his or her connection with the Creator. The Source of our spiritual Light and Guidance. The outward components of Islam are intricately tied to faith and belief and should be done in a way that is internally and externally beautiful.


(From Discovering Islam’s archive)

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[i] The Quran mentions this: “When your Lord took from the children of Adam – from their loins – their descendants and made them testify of themselves, [saying to them], “Am I not your Lord?” They said, “Yes, we have testified.” [This] – lest you should say on the day of Resurrection, “Indeed, we were of this unaware.” (7:172)

[ii] A full explanation of Hadith Jibreel available here.


About Marwa Abdalla
Marwa Abdalla received her B.A. in political science from Southwestern University, in Georgetown, Texas, and is currently working toward a degree in Islamic Studies with the American Open University. She is interested in writing about Islam, marriage and family. Her writing has been published in a book entitled Toward the Well Being of Humanity as well as on numerous websites. She lives with her husband and three daughters in San Diego, CA.

-aboutislam.net

Sunday 27 June 2021

Sincerity Towards The Almighty

 


When I was 15 years old, I was an evangelical Christian.

I attended church twice a week, at least, was the head of the youth group, sat in committee meetings with the church board when they discussed the youth situation, and headed the worship band every time we gathered for worship.

During that time in my life, music was my whole life, as I was training under a semi-professional choir director. I played various instruments and sang. So it only made sense that I try out for the big youth choir that traveled my state. When I was accepted into the choir, I felt so grateful to God that I had the chance to worship him in song.

But night after night, church after church, I began to notice something which disturbed me deeply: every night, without fail, when the leader of the choir would beckon any who were interested to come forward and cry to Jesus for forgiveness, the same few teens would fall on their faces in front of the rest of us and weep. Another teen, or several, would come down from the choir stands and sit with each person, comforting them.

It almost worked like clockwork.

Then I began joining the group, and initially it was out of sincere reverence and repentance. Soon, though, when I felt entirely blasé, I would still feel the urge to sit down in front of the church and seem very sad, if only because there was pressure from within the choir to do so, so as to encourage the people watching the worship choir to do the same.

After some months, I noticed the lack of sincerity in my heart, and I noticed the pride I had developed at being part of this prestigious choir, and I decided to step down.

I could not handle the feeling that I was more interested in people believing I was pious than actually being pious.

Lest we become prideful, Allah and His Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) reminded us of this reality often: that people have the tendency to begin to care very much for the opinions of others at the expense of the pleasure of God.

The name for this sin is riya’, or showing off, and it’s a form of minor shirk.

Be sincere

Allah says in the Quran: {So woe unto those performers of Salat (hypocrites), Those who delay their Salat (from their stated fixed times). Those who do good deeds only to be seen (of men). And prevent Al-Ma’un (small kindnesses)} (Al-Ma’un 107: 4 – 7).

But, more moving than these verses is the story in a hadith Qudsi (a confirmed saying of Muhammad which Allah told him to say).

Abu Hurairah reported that Prophet Muhammad told him:

“…on the Day of Judgment, Allah, Most High, will descend to His slaves to judge between them. Every nation shall be kneeling. The first of those who will be called before him will be a man who memorized the Quran, and a man who was killed in Allah’s cause, and a wealthy man…Allah will say to the wealthy man: “Was I not so generous with you that I did not leave you without any need from anyone?”

He will reply: ‘Of course O Lord!’ Allah will ask: “Then what did you do with what I gave to you?”

He will say: ‘I would nurture the ties of kinship and give charity.’

Then Allah will say to him:

“You have lied. Rather, you wanted it to be said that so-and-so is so generous, and that was said. (meaning that you wanted to get appreciated and that’s what happened.)” (At-Tirmidhi Vol. 4, Book 10, Hadith 2382)

That’s right: someone who spent his money in charity will be dragged into the hellfire! For what sin? Riya’: working to worship Allah only so that people will say you are good, pious, and righteous.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) also said:

“If anyone wants to have his deeds widely publicized, Allah will publicize (his humiliation). And if anyone makes a hypocritical display (of his deeds), Allah will make a display of him.” (Sahih Muslim Book 42, Hadith 7115)

We cannot, must not, allow our work for God to overcome our love for God.

We cannot allow our dawah efforts to distract us from our religious obligations.

We cannot become so wrapped up in spreading the message of Islam that we forget to apply to our own lives.

We cannot confuse the means of pleasing Allah with the actual end, which is Allah’s pleasure.

Just as I stepped down from that worship choir because I could feel pride and riya’ growing in my heart, I have had to step back and re-examine my intentions lately as I have gotten more involved in dawah efforts.

Have you been missing prayers because you’re busy working on something “for Allah”?

Have you been forgetting to make du’a because you’re so busy asking others for help with your efforts?

Have you been more interested in the others in the masjid seeing you pray the extra prayers than in doing it in secret in your home, just for Allah?

We all must remember: we were created to worship Allah before introducing the message of Islam. When we please Allah, we become pleased with Allah, and the message of Islam spreads like wildfire because people see that we are a people of peace, joy, gratitude, serenity, and hope.


About Kaighla Um Dayo
Kaighla Um Dayo is one of the authors of "The New Muslim's Field Guide", expected to be published in Feb. 2018. She is also a former Ask About Islam editor. She is also a regular contributor at islamwich.com, where she ruminates on life as a Muslim American. Her favorite things are meditation, painting, drinking tea, and being outside in nature.

-aboutislam.net

Saturday 26 June 2021

Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim’s Tips to Improve Your Patience

 

Masjid Al-Hussain, Kuala Perlis, Perlis, Malaysia

As Almighty Allah has enjoined patience, He has also provided some means that lead to it and support it. Whenever Allah ordains something, He grants the necessary help and appoints the way to maintain it.

Indeed, Almighty Allah never inflicts a disease unless He provides its remedy, through which recovery is ensured if He wills. Though difficult for the soul, patience is possible to attain and worthy to strive for.

Two aspects of patience

Patience has two aspects: theory and practice. In these, cures of the heart and the body are found. The theoretical aspect, as well as the practical one, should be present so that the most effective treatment may be facilitated.


When a person adds to this his or her sincere resolution, powerful will, and sense of honor, patience is the result. When this occurs, hardships become of little importance, bitterness turns into pleasure, and agonies transform into joys.

The theoretical aspect requires us to get acquainted with the goodness, benefits, bliss, and perfection of the divine obligations as well as the evil and harm of what is forbidden.

There is a continual struggle between patience and impatience. Both seek victory over the other, but the victory of either side will be ensured only when a person supports one side against the other.

When one’s lusts and whims become stronger and gain supremacy, to the point that relief is unattainable, one is usually tempted by promises of gratification and dissuaded from the divine remembrance and contemplation of what is beneficial to one both in this world and in the hereafter.

Five Steps to cure lack of patience

However, if a person is resolved to resist and seek treatment for such a spiritual infection, he or she can achieve that by observing the following:

First, the negative side of desires is nourished by that which stimulates and stirs it into action. So, to weaken the effect of this process, one should avoid the possible stimulus, such as excessiveness in food, for example. Fasting helps control one’s desires, especially if the fast is broken with a modest meal.


Indeed, such gaze is a poisoned arrow of Satan. Satan sends its arrows against an unarmored heart. Armor here connotes either lowering one’s eyes or diverting them. Such an arrow is thrown from the bow of physical forms. If one keeps away from it, it misses its target; otherwise the heart would be smitten.

Second, desire is often stimulated by eyes gazing and, thus, a person should lower his or her gaze as much as possible. The motivation of one’s will and desire, with which the heart may be moved, is stirred by gazing.

Third, pleasure should be sought in what is permissible. Man’s natural instincts can be satisfied with what Almighty Allah has permitted. As pointed out by Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) this is an effective treatment that is prescribed for most people.

Fourth, the harms of wrongdoing in this world should be considered. In fact, if there were neither Paradise nor Hell, contemplating the harms of wrongdoing in this world would still be sufficient to lead people away from doing wrong.

Fifth, one has to think about the ugly aspects of the evil inclinations and whims of the soul. The human being who has even the slightest sense of honor naturally dislikes to be involved in any evil affair.


Reinforce your faith

Faith is a strong incentive that helps achieving patience. Faith can be strengthened by the following:

1. Glorifying Allah: This means to glorify Allah by refraining from disobedience, for He is Ever-Hearing and Ever-Watching. When one’s heart is full of fear and awareness of Allah and respect for Him, one cannot act sinfully.

2. Loving the Creator: If a servant’s heart is full of love for Allah, he or she will give up all sins. Indeed, love commands obedience.

3. Being grateful to the divine bounty and beneficence: A virtuous person never repays his or her benefactor with offensive deeds. This is something only the wicked do. The servants of Allah should, out of thankfulness, fall down in humility when they recognize Allah’s bounties being continually bestowed upon them. As a result, any repulsive sin would seem all the more detestable to them.


5. Expecting loss because of sin: 
Sinful people are in a state of loss, for they lose good both in this world and in the next. The smallest atom of faith is better than the whole universe!

4. Fearing Allah’s wrath and punishment: If a person persists in rebellion, Allah’s wrath descends upon him or her, and His wrath cannot be resisted. Humans are weak by nature and are in constant need of Allah’s help, mercy, and guidance.

So, how can anyone desire to relinquish that? How can they trade it for a brief moment of pleasure that fades away in no time, but whose consequences will be felt forever?

Desires languish while misery remains. Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) as saying,

“The adulterer is not a believer at the moment when he is committing adultery; the wine drinker is not a believer at the moment when he is drinking wine; and the thief is not a believer at the moment when he is stealing.” (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

According to some Companions of the Prophet, faith is taken away from such a person like an umbrella is taken from over one’s head. When he or she repents, faith is obtained once more.

6. Seeking victory over Satan and one’s lower self: When people control their desires and overcome Satan, they find sweetness and delight in their heart. Such victory is greater than the victory gained over human enemies. It is also more impressive, pleasurable, and praiseworthy. Such victory is similar to the effective remedy that treats the ailments of one’s body.

7. Anticipating reward from Allah: Almighty Allah has promised to reward His servants when they give up what is forbidden and restrain their desires. The reward shall be so generous as to make them completely content.

8. Seeking Allah’s aid: The Noble Quran, in more than one verse, speaks about the fortunate persons who shall receive aid and support from their Lord. Almighty Allah says,

{O you who believe! Seek assistance through patience and Prayer; surely Allah is with the patient.} (Al-Baqarah 2:153)

{Lo! Allah is with those who keep their duty unto Him and those who are doers of good.} (An-Nahl 16:128)

{And verily Allah is with those who do right.} (Al-`Ankabut 29:69)

Allah’s aid and bounty are surely better and more lasting. Eternal success and happiness are so much more desirable than a short joy in the brief period of one’s life.


At the moment of death, the sinful will regret their negligence and disobedience. One does not fully appreciate this until his or her life is over, and then it will be too late.

9. Fearing unexpected death: Always in the back of people’s mind is the fear of death, which can take them by surprise at any time. The time of death is unknown to any one.

10. Grasping the evil consequences of sins: Experiencing tribulation is often related to sins and their consequences, while well-being comes as a reward and mercy from Allah when people obey Him. Some earlier scholars said,

“When we see people in great difficulty, we should ask Allah for well-being. And when people try to evade their obligations toward Allah and become willfully disobedient and negligent in remembering Him, then affliction follows.”


References

Adapted from the author’s `Uddat As-Sabreen wa Dhakeerat Ash-Shkirin, cited here with modifications from http://nur-ar-ramadan.tripod.com/index.html

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Friday 25 June 2021

4 Lessons from Surat Al-Mulk for Young Souls

 


In several Hadiths, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) mentioned the virtues of Surat Al-Mulk.


Such blessings of Surat Al-Mulk should make us more curious about what we can learn/apply from it. For example, he told us that it protects its reader from the punishment of the grave (this seems to be the more commonly known virtue). It is also intercedes for its reader on the Day of Judgement, with Allah’s permission.

In this article, we will explore lessons from surat Mulk to enrich our young lives.

Lesson #1: Surat Al-Mulk Is Your Ally

The above blessings of Surat Al-Mulk makes one wonder, if the Quran will act as an ally to defend us in our most vulnerable moments, do we treat it like an ally? 

Or do we use the excuses many young people use: “I’m busy. I’ll get to it later. I’ll find time.”

We learn the first lesson from Surat Al-Mulk before we even begin to recite it: treat the Quran like a friend. Spend time with it. Listen to it. Defend it to those who slander it.

One of the most powerful reflections I have heard about the Quran is that, by virtue of it being revelation from Allah, it is “living” in a sense. 

The Quran speaks to us in a way that Allah permits. Surat Al-Mulk is no exception, so befriend it and let it speak to you.

Lesson #2: God Made You Whole

{˹He is the One˺ Who created seven heavens, one above the other. You will never see any imperfection in the creation of the Most Compassionate.1 So look again: do you see any flaws?

Then return [your] vision twice again. [Your] vision will return to you humbled while it is fatigued.} (Al-Mulk 67:3-4)


Self-worth is a struggle of many young people that can carry into adulthood. It is well-documented in the research literature and anyone who works with young people can attest to it anecdotally. You may wonder how it connects to this verse, keep reading.

Read these verses closely. And just as the verse instructs repetition, read them again.

The same Allah who created the sky without any breaks created you and your soul. The same Allah who kept the sky whole has given us all we need to remain whole in this dunya. He has given us the Quran and Prophet Muhammad’s (peace and blessings be upon him) example.

Umar ibn al-Khattab was known to have said,

“Verily, we were a disgraceful people and Allah honored us with Islam. If we seek honor from anything besides that with which Allah honored us, Allah will disgrace us” (Sahih: Al-Mustadrak 214).

This is another beautiful reminder of self-worth, especially when we find ourselves hesitant or shy in performing the actions of a Muslim in public. It is our honor and our reward is with the One who made us whole.

Lesson #3: You Can’t Hide What’s in Your Heart

{Whether you speak secretly or openly—He surely knows best what is ˹hidden˺ in the heart.

Does He who created not know, while He is the Subtle, the Acquainted?} (Al-Mulk 67:13-14)


The lesson in these verses is almost haunting and is not meant for strictly the Quraiysh. The lesson is that whether you say it or not, what is truly inside your heart will come out and it will be known.

Ibn Abbas reflects that the reason for the revelation of this verse was that the Kuffar would slander the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and remind each other to whisper/keep quiet. They seemed to neglect that Allah hears all.

We can’t tell if the Instagram photo of you volunteering was posted with the intention to self-promote/boast or share an opportunity for good work. 

But Allah can tell. And He will reveal us if we are not actively doing “heart work” to purify ourselves.

This includes practical effort like constantly making tawbah (repentance), giving Allah His right through our salah, refining our character through kind words and charity and much more.

Don’t get caught in building a profile of what a good person you are online. Build it in real life and remember Allah knows the effort or the lack thereof.

Lesson #4: God Only Knows…

{˹Still˺ they ask ˹the believers˺, “When will this threat come to pass, if what you say is true?” Say, ˹O Prophet,˺ “That knowledge is with Allah alone, and I am only sent with a clear warning.”} (Al-Mulk 67:25-26)

 In this example, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is mockingly asked about when the Day of Judgement will happen. The lesson we learn here is two-fold. 

These two verses represent a common theme in the Quran. It is of Allah instructing the Prophet on what to reply to those who have ill intentions toward him and the Muslims.


In a hadith in Bukhari, a man asked the Prophet  when the Day of Judgement would be. The Prophet responded, “what have you prepared for it”?1. To not fixate on the details that Allah hasn’t given to us. This requires a trust that Allah knows better, which He does because He is the All-Knowing.

This perspective shift is essential for success in this world and the next. The shift is to focus on what you can control rather than what you cannot.

2. The second part of the lesson is to note how Allah supports his Prophet by giving him the proper responses to any jabs.

This support extends to us. These verses (along with several others in the Quran) narrate the perfect come-backs, explanations and strategies to respond to questions.

These questions may be from others or they may be questions we ask ourselves. To train yourself in the art of Quranic rhetoric requires time interacting with the Quran and reflecting on such verses.

Surat Al-Mulk Challenge

There are many more lessons to learn from Surat Al-Mulk about tawakkul (reliance on Allah), rizq (sustenance), and the unseen.

As a challenge, make it a habit to read surat Al-Mulk every night. Take that time to reflect on the lessons we’ve discussed here and more you may unlock on your own!

May Allah make the Qur’an the light of our hearts. 


About Hana Alasry
Hana Alasry is a Yemeni American Muslim community organizer and activist working most heavily with MAS Youth. Her work focuses heavily on Muslim youth development, Islamic tarbiya and the Yemen crisis. She is currently in PA school studying medicine at the University of Detroit Mercy.

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