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Saturday, 21 February 2026

Ramadan: Psychological Blessings of Taraweeh

 


Ramadan is the month of multiple blessings. It is the time of fasting and of extensive spiritual exercise. It is the time when we change our everyday routine and set a new one: revolving around our religious duties more than around the worldly affairs.

During Ramadan, Muslims make special effort to find time for recitation and study of the Holy Quran, for supererogatory prayers, such as Taraweeh, and other charitable deeds.

The rewards in the Hereafter (akhira) for the good deeds done in Ramadan are manifold, but there are also more immediate benefits of Ramadan worship.

It is widely known that people who fast enjoy spiritual and psychological well-being and that fasting is of great advantage to physical health. But it is not only fasting that profits our mind and spirit during Ramadan.

Taraweeh, the extra night prayers performed by the believers usually after Isha (evening prayers) and lasting from eight to twenty rakahs, brings great spiritual and psychological comforts, despite the physical and mental effort required to practice them.

Ibrahim B. Syed, doctor of medicine and the president of the Islamic Research Foundation International, in his essay ‘The Medical Benefits of Taraweeh Prayers’ published on the IRFI website, mentions the multiple benefits of tarawih for physical, emotional  and mental health.

Mood & Mental State

According to Syed, taraweeh prayer, as indeed any prayer performed by Muslims, has the same effects on body and mind as gentle exercise.

Therefore tarawih improves mood, thought and behaviour in the same way as the exercise does.

Furthermore, the exercise of taraweeh “induces greater sense of well-being and energy, reduces anxiety and depression, influences mood favorably and contributes to self-esteem and an aura of confidence; improves memory in the elderly especially with constant repetition of the Ayaat”.

The relaxed state of mind achieved through tarawih may be partly due to the chemical response of brain to the combination of repeated muscular activity with repetition of recited words over a certain period of time.

The physical exercise, but also other activities such as meditation and prayer, leads to the secretion of neurotransmitters such as Endorphins and Encephalin positively affecting the brain.

The release of encephalin and Beta-endorphins (Endogenous Morphines) acts on the central and peripheral nervous systems to reduce pain and has a calming effect on the mind. The encephalin is one of the most potent opiate-like substance naturally occurring in body.

The endorphins too have an analgesic effect, but also reduce the negative effects of stress, bring feelings of euphoria and enhance the immune system.

Relaxation


Syed mentions in his essay that taraweeh helps achieve ‘relaxation response’ of the brain.

Relaxation response is theory developed by a Harvard professor, Dr. Herbert Benson, who studied the impact of spirituality for physical health and whose work serves as a bridge between religion and medicine and mind and body.

According to Benson, continuous repetition of certain words, as in prayer or meditation, or a muscular activity coupled with passive disregard of intensive thoughts, leads to the lowering of blood pressure and reduction in heart and respiratory rates.

In words of Benson “the relaxation response is a physical state of deep rest that changes the physical and emotional responses to stress”. Relaxation response puts the mind at ease, reduces effects of stress and induces the attitude of acceptance.

And while Benson never actually examined the effects of tarawih or any other Islamic prayer, focusing rather on the transcendental meditation of Yogis, his theory seems to be well applicable in explanation of the soothing effects of taraweeh and zekr on Muslims.

According to the study “Effect of Taraweeh Prayers on Mental Health and Self Control” conducted by Quadri Syed Javeed, Head & Associate Professor in Psychology at M.S.S. Art’s Commerce & Science College, in Jalna, India, published in the February 2013 issue of Golden Research Thoughts, the tarawih prayer significantly improves mental health and self-control.

In his study Javeed examined the mental health of fifty respondents aged 18-30 before and after the prayer using Mental Health Inventory and Multi Assessment Personality Series Inventory, and the results upheld his hypothesis of the positive effects of taraweeh on mental and spiritual well-being.

Brain Activity

Yet another explanation of the beneficial effects of taraweeh on mental health may be found in the results of the studies conducted by a University of Missouri neuropsychologist Brick Johnstone and by the Professor and Director of Research Myrna Brind Center of Integrative Medicine Andrew Newberg.

The studies on the brain activity of Francescan nuns and Buddhist meditators during their prayer and found that during spiritual experiences the activity of right parietal lobe of the brain is significantly decreased.

Right parietal lobe is a small region near the back of the brain that constantly calculates a person’s spatial orientation, the sense of where one’s body ends and the world begins, in other words, it is a part of the brain responsible for the sense of self.

During intense prayer or meditation, and for yet unknown reasons, the right parietal lobe becomes a quiet oasis of inactivity. “It creates a blurring of the self-other relationship,” said Professor Newberg, “If they go far enough, they have a complete dissolving of the self, a sense of union, a sense of infinite spacelessness.”

Decreased activity of right parietal lobe induces the sense of selflessness, and the experience of selflessness, in the opinion of Johnstone positively affects the psychological health especially among people with strong faith in God.


Our research focused on the personal experience of spiritual transcendence and does not in any way minimise the importance of religion or personal beliefs, nor does it suggest that spiritual experience are related only to neuropsychological activity in the brain,” Johnstone said. “It is important to note that individuals experience their God or higher power in many different ways, but that all people from all religions and beliefs appear to experience these connections in a similar way.”

The functioning of the brain during spiritual exercise is yet a field in which very little research has been done. The results of the studies of Johnstone and Newberg, the relaxation response theory of Benson and the neurotransmitters explanation of Syed, only partially answer the question of how prayer in general, and tarawih prayer in particular, benefits the mental health and the spiritual well-being.

Yet even though the ‘how’ is still largely unknown, the positive effects of tarawih during Ramadan and of everyday salat in the lives of Muslims are obvious even without scientific data to prove it.

After all Allah tells us in the Qur’an: “Indeed whosoever purifies himself shall achieve success, and remembers the name of his Lord and prays” (Surat Al-A`la: 87:15-16), and “O ye who believe! Seek help with patient perseverance and prayer; for Allah is with those who patiently persevere.” (Surat Al-Baqarah: 2:153).

- aboutislam.net

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About Klaudia Khan
Klaudia Khan is a freelance writer interested in all aspects of green living. She studied Sociology in London and now lives with her husband and two daughters in the UK and Pakistan.

Friday, 20 February 2026

Fasting in Materialistic World

 


Fasting is deemed as a strange and, thus, renounced act of worship in the eyes of the materialistic civilization predominating the global scene of today’s world. As it is a civilization that believes in the body, not the soul; it cares about this present life, not the Hereafter!

Therefore, it abhors any form of worship that restricts the desires even if temporarily. It abhors any form of worship that attempts to discipline that “spoiled” body in any way. Further, it doesn’t like any form of worship that demands man to commit to any moral ideal!

Contemporarily, individuals as well as groups of people strive to increase their income and, hence, improve their standard of living. However, very few are those who really care about taking this as a means to lead a righteous life.

In so doing, they rush to declare religion as innocent of the act of liking poverty and opposing the body. To them, affluence is the secret behind good health and the strong and healthy body is necessary for performing one’s duties and carrying one’s burdens. However, a question that begs answering here is that: Do people treat their bodies in a way that suggests respect for science?

Dietitians say that food is bi-functional. Its first function is to provide the body with necessary energy for its movement and action. Whereas the second is to renew the dead cells and enable the body to grow during different stages of one’s life.

Well, do we really eat to meet these two needs only? Dietitians say that the human body needs such and such calories a day to maintain one’s life. In fact, if the required calories were 100 a day for example, then, the average person would consume between 300 and 1000!

No doubt, food is necessary for the human “machine”; however, differences between manufactured machines and the human body is crystal clear. For example, a car’s fuel tank has a fixed capacity; it can take a certain amount of gasoline only. It cannot make place for any extra amount of gasoline; not even a few drops.

Notwithstanding, the human stomach is made of stretchable tissues which can make room for more food than an average person really needs!

A fatal desire

A car’s fuel tank supplies gasoline to engine to the last drop, then it needs a refill.

On the contrary, the stomach provides the body with necessary food; then the remaining food turns into fat which coats the body from within and hence adds more weight thereto.

A car cannot do this; it cannot make room for any extra fuel. Even if the fuel tank can take in extra fuel – which is not true -, it cannot turn it into any other substance that adds to the car’s body or accessories!


Apparently, man is an amazing creature! Sometimes, he is beyond believing! He is always aspiring to more than enough.

Man may fight for that harmful increase. He sees nothing wrong in gaining that increase even in the form of an extra weight.

To many, gaining extra weight is far better than taking care of an impoverished child or supporting a sweating, hard-working laborer!Man is the only creature who though knows what is harmful for himself, he willingly undertakes it. It is the fatal desire!

However, the self that desires what may hurt it still can be disciplined and stopped at rational boundaries.

When we really fast…

Here comes the disciplining effect of fasting as it returns the self back to what may be little but sufficient, and deters it from tackling what is much but may be harmful! That is the day when we really fast.

When temporary abstinence is not a false pretext to devour more food as the majority of people do! Perhaps one of the greatest fruits of observing fasting is that it enables one to lead one’s life with a little bit of deprivation in one way or another.

I would visualize Prophet Muhammad asking his household one day, in the morning, if they had anything to eat and the answer was no. So, he decided to fast that day. He spent his day in a normal way as if nothing had happened at all!

He would meet various delegations with a broad smile; judge between the litigants without showing any sign of worry or discomfort; wait – with perfect certainty – for Allah’s sustenance and provision; and he (Peace and blessings be upon him) always believed in the Qur’anic statement,

{So, indeed, with hardship comes ease. Indeed, with hardship comes ease.} (Ash-Sharh 94:5-6)

What a great psychological power when a human being faces both good and bad times with the same perfect self-control, endurance, rationality, and a sweet broad smile!

To me, one of the main factors behind the victories of earlier Muslims over their enemies during the wars of liberation was fewness of the desires they had as well as lack of the habits they fell into. They used to take few dates with them then rush their enemies in the battlefield. On the other hand, Persian and Roman soldiers, used to have carriages laden with food and drink behind their ranks; otherwise, they would cease fighting!

Nothing is as superior as fasting!

From time to time, people may be hit by severe crises that shake the very foundations of their societies as they become short of food and drink. But, what should they do then? They either become patient against their will, or become obliged to observe compulsory fasting. They do either while their hearts are filled with exasperation and discontent.


By contrast, the Islamic ritual of fasting is something unique as it greatly differs from all these. In essence, it is to deprive one’s self of eating and drinking while there is plenty thereof only for the sake of Allah the Almighty!

It is some sort of forbearance while one has a choice either to observe fast or not while no one would know about it except Allah the All-Knower. Remarkably, one willingly chooses to silence the screams of one’s empty stomach and delays answering its demands. One does this while anticipating the reward for his patience from his Lord on a very hard day,

{And that is a Day to which all people shall be gathered. And that is a Day that shall be witnessed by all creation!} (Hud 11:103)

The relationship between hardship and the reward in the Hereafter is what the following hadith means,

Whoever observes fasts during the month of Ramadan out of sincere faith, and hoping to attain Allah’s rewards, then all his past sins will be forgiven.” (Al-Bukhari)

The phrase “out of sincere faith, and hoping to attain Allah’s rewards,” stands for an effort whose reward is not hastened in any way. Rather, the doer decides to put it away with the rest of his savings (i.e. other good deeds) with his Lord hoping to receive it all on a certain day, {That is the True Day! So let whoever so wills take a penitent course to his Lord.} (An-Naba’ 78:39)

Unfortunately, the fasting person will find some people who neither observe fast, nor recognize the sanctity of the sacred month of Ramadan as they eat when they feel hungry and drink when they feel thirsty. What will these people find with their Lord on the Day of Judgment?!

Undoubtedly, they will find those who built up significant savings with their Lord as in another level, full of blessings and joys. The Ever-Glorious Qur’an tells us about those who wasted their future in such a way as saying what may mean,

{And the Companions of the Fire of Hell shall call out to the Companions of the [Everlasting] Garden of Paradise: Pour down upon us some water or give us some sustenance from what God has provided you! They shall say: Indeed, God has forbidden each of them to the disbelievers, those who took their religion as amusement and play, and whom the life of the world utterly deluded.} (Al-A`raf 7:50-51)

May Allah the Almighty make us from among those who build up huge savings with Him and who anticipate great rewards from Him, Glory be His, on the Day of Judgment. Amen.


References

This article is an abridged translation of the author’s article Falsafat As-Sawm (Fating Philosophy), published in a Collection of Sheikh Al-Ghazali’s articles compiled by Abdel-Hamid Hasanin Hasan.

- aboutislam.net

Thursday, 19 February 2026

Ramadan, It’s Not Just about Fasting!


What is the first thought that comes to your mind when you think about Ramadan? It is not just about fasting. We shouldn’t think about only fasting in this month .Then what else? Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan explains this and more! - aboutislam.net

Wednesday, 18 February 2026

The A to Z of the Holy Month of Ramadan

 


We are blessed to benefit from yet another holy month in our lifetime. Ramadan is nearly here and we all are spiritually charged and excited to receive unlimited bounties. It is the time of the year when we try to please Allah and are rewarded with the limitless mercies of Allah.

If you haven’t felt the thrill yet, then read on.

Listed below are the A to Z of Ramadan, the benefits, wisdom and lessons one learns from the fasting bonanza.

Abstinence

As-Siyam or fasting means to “abstain from something.” In Ramadan, one should abstain from food, drink, marital relations and other actions that displease Allah, from dawn to dusk with the explicit intention of doing so for the sake of the Almighty.

Blessings

The blessings and benefits of Ramadan fasting are too many to be listed. Some of these include: The blessed Holy Quran was revealed in this month, the doors of the heaven are opened, while the doors of the hell are closed and the devils are chained.

Charity

The benefits of charity to the poor and needy are tremendous. Ibn ‘Abaas said:

“The Prophet (peace be upon him) was the most charitable among the people, and he used to be more so in the month of Ramadan when Jibreel used to meet him on every night of Ramadan till the end of the month.” (Bukhari)

The Prophet said:

He who gives food for a fasting person to break his fast, he will receive the same reward as him, without nothing being reduced from the fasting person’s reward. (Tirmidhi)

Du’a




Ramadan is a great time to make dua (supplication). A dua list will ensure that you will not miss out on any important dua that you want to make to Allah during this holy month. The Messenger of Allah said:

The dua of the fasting person will not be refused. (Reported by Bayhaqi)

Eid

With the sighting of the moon at the end of the month comes the Eid Al-Fitr. It’s like the cherry on top of the cake as it’s a celebratory time that includes buying new clothes, parties, rides for kids and exchanging gifts with family members and friends.

Forgiveness

Ramadan is the best time to forgive and be forgiven. The Prophet said:

Every son of Adam sins and the best of the sinners are those who repent. (Ibn Majah)

Allah provides many opportunities to repent to Him and seek His forgiveness.

Gheebah

The Prophet said:

Whoever does not abandon falsehood in word and action, then Allah has no need that he should leave his food and drink. (Al-Bukhari)

We must pay attention to the purification of our manners. Backbiting and slandering is forbidden and it is like eating the flesh of one’s dead brother. Therefore stay away from Gheebah to realize the true spirit of fasting.

Health

Fasting overhauls the body during the holy month. It speeds up the metabolism and improves brain function, because it boosts the production of a protein called brain-derived neurotrophic factor. It encourages Muslims to take care of their health and to build strong bodies. The Prophet said:

A strong believer is better and is more beloved to Allah than a weak believer, and there is good in everyone. (Muslim)

I’tikaf

It means seclusion and staying in the mosque with the intention of becoming closer to Allah. The Prophet would perform I’tikaf for 10 days every Ramadan. In the year that he died, he performed it for 20 days.

Jannah

It is one of the ultimate goals of all Muslims. Ramadan is essentially a shield from the hell-fire. The Prophet is reported to have said about Ramadan:

An angel calls out: ‘O you who intend to do good deeds, have glad tidings. O you who intend to do evil, refrain, until Ramadan is completed. (Ahmad and Nasa’i)

Kibr

Kibr is when a person feels a sense of superiority and behaves high-handedly with others. The Prophet said:

Never can the person who possesses a speck of pride inside his heart enter Paradise.

One should refrain from pride and self-glorification in Ramadan to please Allah. The act of fasting itself helps us to attain humility and get rid of arrogance.

Laylatul Qadr

The Night of Qadr is greater than 1,000 months of continuous worship; that’s over 83 years. Many will be freed from the hell-fire and granted Jannah on this night. Believers should therefore increase their worship, especially during its last third part when Allah descends to the lowest heavens asking for those who seek His forgiveness.

Miswak

Using the miswak is Sunnah when fasting and otherwise. However, a fasting person must be careful not to swallow anything.

Niyyah

One should be extremely mindful of his intention of fasting and do it only for Allah. The Prophet said:

Whoever fasts one day seeking the pleasure of Allah, if that is the last day of his life, he will enter Paradise. (Ahmad 5/391)

Obligatory Deeds

The reward of an obligatory deed in Ramadan is multiplied by 70 while a non-obligatory action commands the reward of obligatory action in this blessed month. This is a once-in-a-year opportunity to upgrade our rewards collection, thereby improving ourselves.

Piety

Allah legislated fasting for gaining Taqwa (piety). Taqwa in this case means to make a shield between oneself and Allah’s anger and hellfire. The purpose is met when at the end of the fasting day we are able to fear Allah more and as a result are able to protect ourselves from the hellfire.

Qiyam Al-Layl

Numerous Quranic verses and prophetic narrations mention the excellence of the night prayer and the merit of those who perform it regularly. Abu Huraira said:

“I heard the Messenger of Allah say:

“The one who does Qiyam in Ramadan with faith and sincerity, all his/her sins will be forgiven.”

Rayyan

There is in Paradise a door called Rayyan. It is for the fasting Muslims. Only those who fasted the month of Ramadan will be able to enjoy the bliss of Paradise inside that area.

Suhoor

Suhoor is the pre-dawn meal taken before the time of Fajr. The Prophet encouraged us to take suhoor by saying:

Have suhoor, for in suhoor there is blessing (barakah). (Bukhari)

Taraweeh

Special prayers after Isha during Ramadan are called Taraweeh. It is strongly recommended that both men and women attend the prayer in congregation as Taraweeh is a means for forgiveness of the sins.

Umrah

The one who does Umrah in Ramadan will attain a reward equal in amount to that of Haj.

Vision

Many young Muslims are clueless about what they should do in Ramadan. It is therefore important to have a vision, not only for the month of Ramadan but after that as well.

Goals should be set and a routine that will help you achieve those goals should be followed. Be it feeding 10 people, volunteering for charity work or reading the Holy Quran, list it on paper and start doing it.

Wudu

By purifying oneself for prayer, a person expiates all of his sins and his prayer is considered an extra reward for him, which in turn is multiplied several times for it being Ramadan.

A believer must try to do ablution to remain pure as much as he can in the blessed month. If a person makes wudu’ well, all his sins between two prayers (between the salat he will perform and the subsequent one) will be forgiven. (Bukhari)

X-ray your Life

Ramadan is a good time to introspect whether or not your life is being led according to the Quran and Sunnah. It is an exercise in improving the self and setting goals for the present and the future.

This month should make us reflect on the endless bounties that God has bestowed on us and thank Him profusely for the same. It is also time for Tawbah (repentance with a pledge not to repeat) for the past sins.

Yateem

The number of orphans worldwide has reached an all-time high.
Muslims should follow the example set by the Prophet Muhammad himself who said holding his index and middle fingers together upright:

I and the person who looks after an orphan and provides for him will be in paradise like this.

They should come together to care for, provide for, and support orphans who cannot otherwise help themselves in the holy month of Ramadan.

Zakat Al-Fitr

The Prophet enjoined Zakat Al-Fitr so that those who observed fasting are purified of their bad deeds and thus, are able to perfect their fasting, and so that the poor and the needy are able to arrange for their basic necessities of food and clothing. It should be distributed before the Eid prayer.

Source: Arab News.

About Afifa Jabeen
Afifa Quraishi: An eternal student of Islam. Allergic to both misogynists and feminists. A passionate supporter of women's rights within the framework of Islam. I am also an editor at Arab News.

Tuesday, 17 February 2026

Holy Moon, Ramadan, and Degrading Jesus

 


Muslim Jesus

You said that your first cultural shock was that Muslims degraded Jesus (peace be upon him). You did not say what exactly you heard that you felt was degrading.

We believe that Jesus was a human being, miraculously born of a virgin, and that he was a prophet and messenger of God. He miraculously spoke as a baby in the cradle, and later performed other miracles such as healing the sick and raising the dead – by the grace of Allah.

Are we degrading him because we do not accept that he is God or the Son of God? In fact, we Muslims feel that Christians are exalting him beyond his human nature.

We love and respect Jesus as a prophet and a messenger. We do not accept that he is “the Lord”. Rather Allah, the One Who created us all and Who sent Jesus and the other prophets, including Muhammad (peace be upon them all), is our Lord.

You referred to the Muslims’ Special and Great God. We worship the same God as you. We just have some disagreement about His nature and, of course, about the nature of Jesus. God – or Allah in Arabic – is the One Who created everything and Who will raise us and judge us all, on the Day of Judgment.

Your second shock, you said, was that Muslims “were not clear with you”. I do not quite understand this remark. They probably were trying to be nice, but you expected them to be either apologetic or aggressive and put things for you in: black and white.

I really wonder why you got that impression, instead of feeling that they wanted to offer you their admiration and respect, without offending you in any way? Maybe it was simply cultural differences here.

Is the Moon Divine?

There also seems to be a misunderstanding about Muslims’ excitement over sighting the new crescent of Ramadan. So let me elaborate a bit on that.

First of all, ask yourself, why do many Americans get so excited about watching a ball drop in Times Square on New Year’s Eve? It is just to mark the passage of time, the beginning of a new year. It is not because Americans worship this ball. 

I think you could draw an analogy with the sighting of the new moon at the beginning of Ramadan. It is marking the passage of time, the beginning of a blessed month. In all cultures you will find similar celebrations, rituals, and social events.

Ramadan

Ramadan, as you probably know, is a month of fasting and additional worship schedules. It is supposed to be a time of spiritual renewal and extra efforts to give charity, read Quran, pray… etc.

Even many Muslims who do not keep their prayers regularly will fast during the month of Ramadan. As for others, who worship regularly, they feel it is time for renewing their commitment. Worship will become to them a renewed serenity because of their conscious devoted relation with Allah.

So, the sighting of the moon at the beginning of Ramadan is not, as you interpreted, because Muslims worship the moon. It is just that they are happy to see the start of a happy and blessed month.

Ramadan and change of behavior

You remarked that people’s behavior changed completely during this month. It is true, unfortunately – that for many people – Ramadan has become a month of consumerism.

This is as much as Christmas is not any more a purely religious event, but a season for the capital market, sales, shopping, and even partying in five start hotels for rich people while the poor are hungry.

On the other hand, it is also good and not far from the spirit of religion to consider it as a time for frequent dinners with family and friends, thus strengthening the social ties.

Again, you can see how many similarities run between different cultures and traditions, through their struggle to keep the spiritual aims of such times in tact, while coping with modern lifestyles.

The Lunar Calendar

As for sighting the moon, Islam follows a lunar calendar for its religious celebrations. In some countries, such as Saudi Arabia, the Islamic calendar is regularly used for everyday affairs. In other countries, the Gregorian calendar is used regularly, and the lunar calendar is referred to, for the religious holidays only.

In either case, the lunar calendar is a great mercy from God. Even if someone is stranded in a deserted place, he only needs to watch the moon and keep track of the new moons to mark the passage of time.

There is no need to be an astronomer and add occasional extra days, as with the solar calendar, so that the same months fall in the same seasons.

Also, by following the lunar calendar, Ramadan and Hajj (pilgrimage) fall in different seasons of the year throughout a 33-year cycle. This way, one country does not always fast during a very hot or a very cold season, and likewise, the Hajj falls during various seasons of the year.

Hope that we have clarified things. Continue to search for answers to your questions, but remember not to judge Islam by what you see Muslims do. For, like in the case of Christians, Jews, and followers of any religion or creed, some Muslims do not practice what their religion teaches.

May God guide us all to the truth.

- aboutislam.net

About AElfwine Mischler

AElfwine Mischler is an American convert to Islam. She has undergraduate degrees in physics and English, and a master's degree in linguistics and teaching English as a foreign language.

Monday, 16 February 2026

Why Do We Fast During Ramadan?


It’s one that I’m sure a lot of children are asking this time of year, especially as they get to the age where they begin fasting, as well.

Allah Commands It

When it comes down to it, the simplest reason that we fast is because Allah commanded us to do so in the Quran. In Surah Baqara, verse 185 He said:

Allah Commands It

When it comes down to it, the simplest reason that we fast is because Allah commanded us to do so in the Quran. In Surah Baqara, verse 185 He said:

“Ramadan is the [month] in which the Quran was sent down, as a guide to mankind, also clear [signs] for guidance and the differentiation [between right and wrong].” He also said, only two verses before, verse 183: “O you who believe! Fasting is prescribed to you as it was prescribed to those before you, that you may learn piety and righteousness.”

Fasting is one of the five pillars of Islam. It is something that Allah has told us to do, and so we do it.

However, having children myself, I know that this is not an answer that will be satisfying to young minds. So there are two other options to explore.

Empathy for those Less Fortunate

This is a reason often cited during Ramadan: that during this time we deprive ourselves of food and water so that we may be grateful for those blessings. We are fortunate to be able to break our fast at the end of the day, but we are mindful that there are many around the world who are not so fortunate. There are many who are in more or less a perpetual state of fasting, due to famine, war, poverty, etc.

This reason provides an easy explanation to young children. But in my opinion, it is a fairly weak reason. Nowhere in the Quran or Hadith that I am aware of does it mention this as a reason for fasting. Yes, we may gain empathy for those less fortunate and this should increase our charitable giving during this time, but it is not really the reason.

A non-Muslim cannot understand what it is like to be Muslim by wearing a hijab for a few hours – and those of us fortunate enough to have sufficient food every day cannot understand what it is to be destitute just by fasting for daylight hours. Empathy is good, but providing this as a reason for fasting is rather shallow.

Taqwa

In a Hadith from Sahih Bukhari, the Prophet (saw) told us:

“Whoever fasts during Ramadan out of sincere faith and hoping to attain Allah’s rewards … all his past sins will be forgiven.”

This, to me, is much more the crux of “why” we fast. We fast with the intent of pleasing Allah and with the hope of having our sins forgiven. During the month of Ramadan, Shaytaan is chained up and cannot influence us. So what better time to dedicate ourselves to worship?

During the month of Ramadan, the goal is to attain taqwa and to draw our hearts nearer to Allah. When we fast with sincere intention, He forgives us for our sins.

My best advice is to explain to your child how important it is for Allah to be pleased with us and how pleased He is when we fast during Ramadan. Explain that even though fasting is hard, we get reward for struggling. It isn’t that Allah wants us to suffer – after all, going for a few hours without food or drink is not suffering, and if it would cause us harm to go without, He wants us to eat and drink – but that He is pleased to see the small sacrifices we are willing to make in hopes of making Him happy.

Insha’Allah this helps – children can really ask some tough questions!

And Allah knows best.

- aboutislam,net

About Leah Mallery
Leah is a Muslim convert of almost a decade. She has two kids, an intercultural marriage, and half of a French degree in her back pocket, looking to switch gears to science and medicine. She has lived abroad for over a decade, having just recently become reacquainted with her roots in America. She currently lives in Michigan near her family and – masha’Allah – a sizeable Muslim community.

Sunday, 15 February 2026

Ramadan 101… Your Guide for a Fruitful Ramadan

 


Get ready for Ramadan with our comprehensive guide to a fruitful and fulfilling experience.

With just a few days until the start of the month, millions of Muslims around the world are eagerly anticipating this special time of year.

Have you set your Ramadan goals? Are you ready to maximize your rewards and reap the benefits of this blessed month?

Ramadan offers a golden opportunity to recharge our spiritual batteries, draw closer to Allah, and make positive changes in our lives.

Let us help you prepare with this special collection, designed to help you get the most out of this transformative time.

From practical tips to inspiring insights, our guide is your ultimate resource for a successful Ramadan.